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The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo: A Thrilling Page-Turner

“Just get past all the weird Swedish stuff and boring business details. It’s awesome. Super creepy.”

That’s what my sister said as she shoved Stieg Larsson’s 600-page novel into my hands. She’s a pediatric intensive care nurse, and after working crazy hours in intense life-or-death situations, she likes to escape into a good book. With her recommendation, I knew it was going to be a worthwhile read.

In the novel translated from Swedish, we meet journalist Mikael Blomkvist, who is watching his rising star dim. The story he thought would expose international financial scandal instead lands him in court accused of libel. His misfortune does open up a new adventure and a chance to rebuild his tarnished reputation. Mikael is recruited by the aging patriarch of a powerful corporate family, whose last wish is to solve the decades-old mystery of the disappearance of his beloved niece.

I am afraid to give too much away and spoil the plot twists and shocking scenes (some downright disturbing) that had me turning the pages for hours on end. I will say Mikael gets help unraveling the mystery with one of literature’s most unlikely and oddest heroines, Lisbeth Salander. A social misfit whose next move is impossible to predict, she adds an element of intrigue and surprise that makes her one of my new favorite smart and strong female characters.

I loved “Girl with the Dragon Tattoo” so much that I am now on to the next book in the series, “The Girl Who Plays with Fire.” Only 100 pages in and it’s already as enthralling as the first. Unfortunately, Larsson died shortly after delivering the manuscripts for three books (he had outlines for 10 in the series). I am looking forward to the final novel’s release in May, but I am worried it will just leave me wanting more.

--Reviewed by Kristin Petersen

SHED Your Stuff, Change Your Life: A Four-Step Guide to Getting Unstuck

Do you have trouble keeping new year’s resolutions? You’re not alone.  According to research on New Year’s resolutions, fewer than 50% of those who made resolutions are keeping them 3 months later.  I’m a relentless resolution maker, but I’m not even close to the 50%, and the reason is that I always try to tackle more than is realistic. The good news is that I’ll make 4-6 resolutions each year, and typically see success with one or two.  Some might be disappointed with a 30% success ratio, but I focus on the wins and simply try to learn from the missteps, so success is inevitable in time. 

One thing I’ve learned in 20 years of resolutions is that change sometimes requires thinking outside the box.  For example, budgeting didn’t work for me until I flip-flopped the process. Rather than assuming the left-over was for savings and emergency funds, someone suggested I set aside my savings, tithe and emergency funds, and I now limit my spending to what’s left.  Similarly, my goal for staying fit and having fun doing it didn’t work until Nintendo introduced the Wii, whose EA Sports program brings an encouraging “personal” trainer into my home for a fast-changing, challenging routine that makes me eager to go  to the “gym.”

Sadly, the resolution to get organized has been on my list for about the last 10 years, and a quick look at my work or home office reveals the truth of my deficiency in this area.  Not wanting to see that on my list for the next 10 years, I called Julie Morganstern, whose talents in this area were made famous through Oprah and more than 20 years of success.  Morganstern didn’t answer the phone, but a quick conversation with one of her consultants helped me take the problem seriously, as the hourly rates would quickly usurp my savings set-aside and destroy my budget.  I took the mid-range option she suggested, and enrolled in Morganstern’s WorkSmart workshop, which included a copy of Morganstern’s new book, SHED.

The workshop was pretty intimate, and provided some very concrete nuggets, which may also help you.  I like the interaction and personal accountability of a personalized workshop, but you can also learn about the topics covered through Morganstern’s blog.  Her advice not to check email first thing in the morning was probably the biggest “Aha!” for me.  I haven’t become consistent in this practice, but focusing the first part of my day on the most difficult tasks (vs. email) helps ensure those tasks are accomplished and I (vs. my email) maintain control of my day.

My resolution for this year is to implement more of these organizing principles and to begin to SHED those things that no longer serve me.

I spoke earlier about how we need to think outside the box when the existing strategies aren’t bringing about the changes or success we desire.  Through 20 years of delivering organizational support and advice, Morganstern wrote SHED because she encountered people who just couldn’t see clearly enough to clean up their surroundings.  This is often the case with people who have had very full lives and want to hold on to aspects of all of their lives even when parts of their lives no longer serve them.  She uses the example of her professional interests in theater/drama, which she no longer practices and needed to shed.  I quickly saw that my MBA materials and prior marriage memorabilia were a distraction and drain on my time and space.  Rather than holding on to past lives, and letting them take valuable space in our homes or lives, Morganstern wisely advises readers follow the principles in her book, SHED: 

S=Separate the Trash from the Treasure
H=Heave that which is no longer useful
E=Embrace the new you
D=Drive forward… make tangible progress on your current theme

I encourage you to buy the book, or take the survey to see for yourself the power of Morganstern’s out-of-the-box thinking on organization and time management, http://www.juliemorganstern.com/.  My hope is that I’ll be able to provide positive proof that her system works for the organizationally challenged.  I’m sharing this publicly because I know how much accountability helps, and you have permission to ask me for pics of both offices (no sooner than July) to attest to the value of Morganstern’s tools and SHED. :) 

--Reviewed by Mary Eggert

Gen BuY: Uncovering the mystery of Gen Y and its impact on the economy

This past month, I traveled to a conference in Seattle, giving me 8.5 hours of uninterrupted time to dig into a book that I have been anxious to read over the past month called “Gen BuY: How Teens, Tweens and Twenty-Somethings are Revolutionizing Retail.”

Gen BuY is a business book that targets corporate market executives to educate them on how to reach Generation Y – the 84-million-strong segment of the population born between 1978 and 2000 who have more purchasing power than any other generation preceding it. For any business leader who makes their living by selling to the consumer, this is a must read.

In Gen BuY, Kit Yarrow, a consumer psychologist with Golden Gate University and Jayne O’Donnell, retail and automotive reporter for USA Today, dissect Generation Y with regards to their shopping habits, the influence they have over their parents purchasing decisions and how they are changing the face of retail forever.

As a member of Generation X, what I found most fascinating about Gen BuY was the exploration of the relationship between parents and their Gen Y children, and how that has changed from previous generations.

When I was growing up, I had what I think you would consider a traditional relationship with my parents. They worked and I went to school, and then we came home, I’d take orders on what chores I had to do around the house and do my homework. After that, we’d eat dinner together – a dinner hand selected by my dad. A great cook, but I have always been a really picky eater, so if I didn’t like the main course, I’d eat whatever bread was served with dinner, and some of the side dishes, like potatoes, and maybe carrots, if I was in the mood for them.

What I didn’t do was dictate what was for dinner. Sure, I’d ask for something I’d like, but when your battling with nine other kids (hey, I’m a Roman Catholic Italian-Irishman, what can I say?), your voice sort of gets lost. And, I don’t think this was exclusive to me, this was prevalent at all of my friends’ homes as well.

But, somewhere along the line, things have changed. Members of Generation Y are not order takers – they are more like partners with their parents. Not only are they deciding what’s for dinner, but they also help their parents to make decisions on what to buy for the home (a Sony Bravia or a Vizio HDTV), which home they should buy (it has to have a rec room for them and their friends), and they even help their parents with their clothing options (mom can’t be dressed too young or too “frumpy”).

When I was growing up, I never told my mom or dad how to dress, what TV to buy (a 1974 Zenith that lasted until 1987, when my brother bought them a new one), or where to live (we moved 10 times from the time I was born until the time I left for college). I was a silent partner, an order taker, and I was fine with that – that was my role.

And, that’s what makes this book so interesting – not only for retailers but for parents as well – how the parent-child relationship has changed over the last decade, and the impact of that change.

Having worked in the boating industry in the past, I think that marketing executives working for any boat manufacturer need to read Gen BuY to see how much things have changed. Sales in the boating industry tumbled dramatically over the past two years, while attendance at boat shows across the country has dropped anywhere from 30%-50%.

When I worked in PR at one of the national boating trade associations, I heard countless times that sales people and marketing efforts had to reach out to women – since wives were the primary influencers for major purchases in the home. Based on what I read in Gen BuY, that mindset has to change. The boating industry needs to bring the fun of boating and fishing to Gen Y. Not only are they gaining influence among their parents, but as stated, Gen Y has more purchasing power than any generation before it – Gen BuY gives the reader the keys to reaching this audience.

Reading this book as a parent, and a member of Generation X, I was fascinated by the discussion in Gen BuY on how kids and their parents are becoming more like partners, rather than following the traditional parent-child relationship. The discussion on how much kids use social media, how they are using it and why they feel so connected to their social media outlets and with people they have met through social media (but never in person) also uncovered things I never thought about. I think other parents who read this book will gain a greater understanding of their kids and how their use of technology can actually help the family to become a stronger unit.

--Reviewed by Dan Green

The Book of Basketball—The NBA According to The Sports Guy

I just finished reading The Book of Basketball  the mammoth 700-page take on the NBA from Bill Simmons, the celebrated columnist for ESPN.com known as “The Sports Guy”. 

You must first know that Bill Simmons loves the NBA.  Really loves it.  He’s been a Boston Celtics “season ticket holder” with his Dad since he was a real young lad. He now holds season tickets, for better or worse, for the Los Angeles Clippers. So this book was obviously a labor of love. He even risked his marriage with this three-year odyssey by reading untold volumes of NBA books (actually he tells you which books he read at the end) and watching hours upon hours of old games on video. This whole book is Bill’s opinion but you can’t deny it is an informed opinion.  And he openly admits his Celtic biases when it matters.

He wrote the book to “evaluate why certain players and teams mattered more than others”--all based on “The Secret” as explained to him by Isiah Thomas, a frequent target of barbed criticism from Bill throughout his career. It is crucial to understand “The Secret” and it applies to organized, competitive team basketball at any level or playing pick-up in the back-yard. And if you applied “The Secret” in your own game, you will enjoy this book immensely.

I am a regular reader of Bill’s column so the thought of 700 pages, written in Bill’s casual and humorous style wouldn’t scare me off at all. This book, as always, is loaded with Bill’s trademark cultural references, liberally applied in footnote fashion, which never really becomes a distraction. Being a bit older than Bill, I’m happy to report that I got most of his references.

Even thought I am not as passionate about the NBA as I used to be, especially during the Michael Jordan era of the Chicago Bulls (Michael is thoroughly covered in the book and even beats out Bill Russell as Bill’s selection as the “best of all time”), but I do love basketball and I love Bill Simmons as a writer, so I couldn’t go wrong with "The Book of Basketball. "

--Reviewed by Kevin Johnson

Authentic Leadership

Tech Image's Tim Boivin shared the book Authentic Leadership with me to help out with an internal reading assignment we've been doing. I just needed a few pages of it for the main assignment, but as I paged through it I thought "This looks like a book worth reading." And I was right.

Author Bill George is the former CEO of Medtronic, a Minnesota company that manufactures medical devices such as pacemakers. But the book isn't about those, or even about manufacturing. Instead, it's a treatise on how to lead others, whether you're part of a company, a sports team, a local organization or some other group.

In a post-Enron and Lehman Brothers world, the things he has to say make a lot of sense. The reason companies have these problems is they put short-term gains and the concerns of Wall Street ahead of their core mission, which is to serve their customers. Here's where the Medtronics background comes in handy.

They aren't just making products to sell. They're changing lives. It's an extreme example, but one that should be at the heart of every business leader. If you look at the impact your business has on your customers, you should be willing to sacrifice short-term gains or hitting a particular number for long-term benefits, for your customers, your employees, and the business.

The books talks about various phases, and uses a lot of stories (both his own and those of others) to illustrate the points he's making. In the end, that sage advice "To thine own self be true" lies at the core of what Bill George has to say.

Reviewed by Ken Krause

A Captivating Look into the Lives of “The Help”

I’m fortunate to not only have a lot of friends who love to read, but at least one book a year to recommend that I’m confidant all will adore. My current pick is “The Help” by Kathryn Stockett.

In her debut novel, Stockett expertly interweaves the narratives of three women (dialects and all) whose lives intersect in early 1960s Jackson, Mississippi. Abileen, a veteran maid who has raised dozens of other people’s babies; Minny, a feisty maid whose big mouth keeps her perpetually on the job hunt; and Skeeter, an awkward recent college graduate who is anything but the typical Southern Belle. The alternating voices of the African-American maids, and the white woman so unlike her friends who run the households, make you feel as if you are opening the pages of a diary or standing in the room as the scene unfolds.

While racial tension is certainly at the heart of the story, it’s the venue and manner in which Stockett explores the topic that sets it apart from those you’ve encountered before. Stockett has a knack for showcasing the complexities of relationships—whether it’s black/white, mother/daughter, employee/employer, boyfriend/girlfriend, friend/friend. You quickly become invested in each woman’s struggles and triumphs, events that suck you in without crossing the line into the over-the-top or melodramatic.

It’s an engaging read, not without its moments of sadness, shock, humor and joy. I eagerly devoured most of it during travel to and from a friend’s wedding. Considering the abnormally loud man sitting two rows behind me on the plane, that’s saying a lot about how easy it is to get lost in the pages.

-- Reviewed by Kristin Petersen

Lucky

It’s not often that I search the shelves of Barnes & Noble for a memoir. But after reading Alice Sebold’s two bestselling fiction novels, “The Lovely Bones” and “The Almost Moon,” I was left wanting more. The only Sebold novel left for me to read was her first published book, “Lucky.”

In this memoir, Sebold tells the crude story of her brutal rape, near death experience and her long road to recovery while she was attending undergraduate school at Syracuse University. Sebold doesn’t miss any of the chilling details of her ordeal from the moment the book is opened with the line, “this is what I remember,” to the close of her still attempt at recovery years later.

“Lucky” started as a 10-page and then 40-page assignment for a class Sebold was enrolled in during graduate school at University of California, Irvine. Over time this assignment turned into a bone chilling memoir that not only helped Sebold overcome a horrific and life-changing experience, but serve as the base to her two bestselling fiction novels.

After reading “Lucky” it was clear to me that several key components to Sebold’s other books were derived straight from her life. After speaking with police after her rape as a college freshman in “Lucky,” Sebold learned that the woman raped by the same man before her was killed. In Sebold’s first bestseller now turned movie, “The Lovely Bones,” she told the tale of a young girl who was raped and killed, as she spoke about the hunt for her killer in her afterlife.

In a nutshell, “The Almost Moon” was about a woman who could no longer deal with her dysfunctional mother and her anxiety “flaps,” let alone her life. In “Lucky,” Sebold often talked about her real-life mother’s own anxiety and social issues.

Although I didn’t read “Lucky” until after I completed Sebold’s other novels, I wouldn’t have gone about reading the books in any other way. I thought “Lucky” did a wo nderful job of tying the other two books together, while giving the reader a personal glimpse into the bestseller’s life and creativity.

--Reviewed by Christine Rojewski

Bathroom Reader -- #1 in great, useless trivia, not #2

You’ve heard the old saying, “Slow as molasses in January,” right? Back in 1919, the citizens of Boston found out the dangers of fast running molasses when a tank of two million gallons of the sticky stuff erupted.

The tank, operated by the Purity Distilling Company, blew apart, and the two million gallons rushed down the street at 35 miles an hour, having a tidal wave effect on the citizens who were in the city. Not only did the weight of the molasses crush people to death, but it also ripped down the supports holding up the elevated train on Atlantic Avenue and the track collapsed. Fortunately, the conductor was able to stop the train before it fell through the break in the tracks.

This freak accident unfortunately killed 21 people and injured more than 150. And, it had a lasting impact on the city – as the smell of molasses lingered into the 1960s.

That’s not the type of story you’ll read in a regular history book, but you’ll see it in the pages of Uncle John’s Bathroom Reader, a series of books issued by The Bathroom Readers’ Hysterical Society for more than 20 years.

Each year, at least one new edition of Uncle John's Bathroom Reader is released. The molasses story above was from Uncle John’s Bathroom Reader Plunges into History, but there are also books dedicated to the US Presidency, another one on music, but most of the books are a potpourri of various facts that are interesting, informative, and will help to make you a vat of useless knowledge that you can use to impress your friends with at the bar or relatives at your next family reunion.

For instance, did you know that there have been two first ladies named Lucretia (John Quincy Adams and James Garfield)? That the Tremont House in Boston was the first hotel in the country with an indoor modern bathroom? Or that the phrase “To lay an egg” originated as part of the British sport of cricket (when you get shutout a zero looks like an egg).

Bathroom readers give you the real story behind fact-based movies like Braveheart and Spartacus, gives the origins behind horror books like Frankenstein and Dracula, and how TV shows like Star Trek and I Love Lucy came to be.

The best part is that all of the stories are less than four pages long, and usually run between one and two pages, so that you can easily read a story or two in one sitting – which is why the series of books is meant to be enjoyed on the porcelain goddess.

Each page also has a fast fact to help build your knowledge of all things pointless – like one page that says that people in China don’t eat cheese.

So, if you’re hard-pressed finding a Christmas gift for that hard-to-shop-for relative, think about picking up one or two of the 20+ Uncle John Bathroom Readers.

--Reviewed by Dan Green 

Book review: The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

Before The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society is made into a movie (yes, it’s in the works,) get a copy and read it. For good reason, it’s been a “hot potato” on the bestseller list. It’s witty, charming, funny, poignant and hard to put down. 

Set in post WW II England, 30-something Juliet Ashton is suffering from writer’s block when she receives a letter from Dawsey Adams, a pig farmer on the British Channel island of Guernsey.  Dawsey has come into possession of a book Juliet once owned. The story of how Dawsey acquired the novel and the creation of the Society intrigue Juliet, who has become a bestselling columnist and author during and after the war. She begins corresponding with Dawsey and the other Society members. Friendship, compassion and a sense of discovering new stories about the war draw them together.

Written entirely in letters, the great strength of this novel is the character development. Everyone's so English and clever and likable in their quirky ways, except for on crotchety Islander. They come to life through their letters and I truly felt like they were real, not fictional. I laughed out loud throughout many portions of the book, and I felt sorrow within some chapters.

The novel tugs at our heartstrings and doesn't shy away from exploring some of the darker aspects of the war, including the cruelty of some German soldiers and the vulnerability of others. Captivated by this small groupof people, Juliet learns about the terrible conditions they endured during the five-year Nazi occupation and how their lives were forever changed. As she grows attached to each Islander, Juliet discovers a life she never knew existed.

I don’t recommend making a potato peel pie, but I do recommend you read this book!

--Reviewed by Donna Gaidamak

Book Review: The Almost Moon by Alice Sebold

If there was one negative thing I would have to say about author Alice Sebold, it would be that she hasn’t written enough books. I was first introduced to Sebold’s writing when I read her award-winning fiction novel, “The Lovely Bones” a couple of years ago. After reading it, there is no doubt in my mind why it was a national bestseller. Naturally, when I was looking for a great summer read I picked up her other fiction novel, “The Almost Moon.”

One car trip and a train ride later I sadly retired the book next to the completed “The Lovely Bones.” I didn’t put it down, however, because it was dull and difficult to read, rather I couldn’t put it down and I finished it faster than I thought I would. While it isn’t a book for those that don’t like crime thrillers, it is a book that I think can act like an emerald diamond and quickly draw a reader into its pool of action.

The novel opens with an intense tale of a woman wanting to do harm to her delusional mother. It doesn’t take long for Sebold to set the plot and quickly get into the conflict of the story. After a murder is committed, so begins the tale of the woman that is a mother, daughter, friend and adulteress. The woman dreaded her mother with every ounce of hate, yet love, she had in her but as the story unfolds, she finds she truly resembles her mom more than she would have ever guessed.

One might imagine that since the first few chapters are so action-packed that the rest of the book might not carry the same tone, but it did up to the last page. The entire book takes place in a 24-hour period that is filled with murder, anxiety, mystery and thrill that keeps readers wanting more. I thought of it like watching an intense sitcom where you never want to wait until the next week to see what happens next.

If there is one complaint about the book, it’s the ending. I felt like it abruptly ended and left me wanting more while wishing it wasn’t 300 pages but the likes of the “Lord of the Rings” series. Since I only have Sebold’s memoir “Lucky” left to finish reading until I have completed all of her books, I am hoping she writes a sequel to “The Almost Moon” and finishes where she left off.

--Reviewed byChristine Rojewski